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Mediation
is helping
people resolve
conflicts peacefully.
It isn’t about
winning or losing…bringing in witnesses…or stacks of evidence. It is not about
proving anyone wrong.
Instead it is about each person deciding what he or she needs in order to solve
a problem – and coming up with a solution that everyone agrees will work.
What
participants do
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Tell their side of
the story
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Listen to what
other participants have to say
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Reach agreements
they can live with
What mediators do
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Provide a neutral
setting for face-to-face negotiation
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Clarify the issues
that need to be resolved
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Help participants
reach realistic settlement options
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Prepare the written
agreement between the participants
Divorce/Custody Mediation: This is a special service
offered to help folks navigate divorce and custody issues. Mediators will
help you and your partner identify issues that need to be resolved, disclose
relevant financial information, discuss parenting expectations and children’s
living arrangements, and explore needs and interests, generate settlement
options, and seek an agreement you both can live with.
Benefits of
Divorce/Custody Mediation include:
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Clients retain control over important financial and parenting decisions.
- Mediation promotes cooperation and communication, which may improve the
post-divorce relationship.
- Reduced conflict between
parents eases stress on children.
- All proceedings are confidential, so public disclosure or personal information
can be avoided.
- Because the parties do the negotiating, mediation is typically less expensive
than litigation.
Mediation also offers
family services relating to:
separation of married or unmarried
partners
post-divorce parenting and
grandparenting arrangements
parent or step-parent/child concerns
adoption and legal guardianship
pre-nuptial or habitation agreements
estate controversies
family business conflicts
Lebanon Mediation Service
is a local, non-profit program using professionally trained volunteer
mediators. Disputing parties come together in a neutral setting to work through
their problems and find an agreement acceptable to both.
Mediation is simple. First we speak with you by telephone,
privately and confidentially, to hear your perspective and answer any questions
you may have about the mediation process. Then, if the parties aggress, we will
arrange for both to meet with two mediators.
Mediators will remain neutral and do not represent either
party. They do not take sides, place blame, or tell people what to do. Their
goal is to help resolve conflicts between persons.
For some services, a small fee is charged. Donations are
accepted to help pay for the expenses incurred by the program.
The use of Lebanon County Mediation Services has been
encouraged by local governments and agencies.
 
Contact:
Lebanon Mediation
Services
277-0111
or email
mediation@jub.org
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